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5 Reasons Why He Hasn’t Put A Ring on It

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Are you in a relationship with a good man and you wonder, after years of being together, WHEN he will pop that question so you can move on with your dream life? For some of you ladies who have been dating a guy for a few months and still wonder that question.. I REALLY hope you get something out of it.

Before you start to worry, I have 5 reasons why your man won’t put a “ring” on it. One of the reasons isn’t so pretty, HOWEVER, I do believe you can rest assure that even though your man hasn’t committed in the way you’d like him to YET, he may have been committing in the ways he “knows.”

  1. You have been dreaming about your wedding for a lifetime. He just thought about it because you brought it up.

To my beautiful ladies although you may have been thinking about the day of finding your true love and walking down the aisle for most of your life, doesn’t mean your man has… And that is OK. Doesn’t make him love you any less but what I will say throughout this article is that men show their commitment in very different ways!

2. Commitment for you is Marriage. Commitment for him is providing security.

Like I said before, men show commitment in VERY different ways. While you may think commitment means marriage and a wedding (which is TOTALLY beautiful) your man may feel his way of showing commitment is by providing security for you. The intention of all great men out there is always in their want to PROVIDE for the ones they love.

3. He feels too PRESSURED and not EMPOWERED enough to make the decision on his own.

This is something I see quite often in couples. When a man feels too pressured about when he will be POPPING the ultimate question, it takes him AWAY from his masculine role. However, it doesn’t matter if we are talking Masculine or Feminine… NO one wants to feel pressured when it comes down to a decision you ultimately want to make on your own right? … But multiply that by a MILLION when we talk about the Masculine energy because men like to feel like they can make the best decision for themselves and the ones they love ON THEIR OWN!

4. He may have a negative story or meaning around marriage

There could be a negative experience or story he has regarding marriage. Maybe from a childhood experience or even just a belief he has about what marriage actually means. These are just conversations you will need to have as a couple however, if there are negative meanings your partner just can’t get over about marriage, don’t get too upset about it because having a beautiful relationship with your partner and easing their fears about the relationship could make him feel better about the actual ACT of marriage.

I am not saying put your dreams aside, but you must think about what’s more important and if the relationship you have is beautiful then I say LIVE that.

5. He just not that into you….

Now, ladies…  there are signs your man will show when he’s really not that into you and guess what?… As much as you would like me to go into the signs… You will KNOW when this is the case. Marriage should not be the “end all be all” in my opinion but like I said before… commitment to relationship is shown in MANY different ways and if he isn’t showing care, respect, love, deeds of service and making you feel good being around him…. he just may not have the care that is required to have a healthy relationship.


To end this… Do I think marriage is beautiful? YES! However, it is more beautiful to see two people who truly worship and value each other, and trust me, when you release the expectation of what commitment looks like, your man will always do whatever it takes to make you happy… even putting a ring on it!

 

 

 

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