If you had to pick, what’s the sexiest thing your partner can say to you?
Let’s be real, words carry energy and depending on our love language there are certain things your partner says that hits you to your core. Especially sexually.
Gary Chapman, the author of “The 5 Love Languages” discusses how each one of us has a distinct language that is important to understand so we are successful at showing love in a way our partners RECEIVE love. SUCH a golden book and one I recommend, but you know you I had to have fun with this and spice it up a bit because I love seeing how words play in eroticism.
So I created some phrases and tested them on my girlfriends and sure enough, they matched their love language perfectly.
Are you curious what these phrases say about your love language?
1. I want you:
Who doesn’t like to be told they are wanted? I personally think it’s one of the sexiest things my man can say to me. There is so much certainty and desire in that one phrase. Such a turn on!
Love Language: Words of Affirmation
2. I got you:
As a feminine woman, the feminine energy craves safety and certainty. “I got you” just says so much. It makes you feel taken care of and not alone in the pressures of the world. Such a sexy phrase! It instantly gets me out of my head (stresses) and into my body when my man says this to me because it reassures me that everything will be OK!
Love Language: Deeds of services
Note: It’s only deeds of service when you know your partner backs this up with action
3. Welcome to Gucci:
I’m sorry but, we are all ladies here and who doesn’t like to be spoiled? Even if this isn’t your number one sexiest phrase, I’m pretty sure you’re not complaining when your partner comes home with something they KNOW you’d like. I love a good gift from man because it lets me know that he thinks of me and enjoys treating me like his queen.
Love Language: Receiving Gifts
Note: This is only a “love language” if you know your partner backs this up in other ways.
4. I can’t wait to taste you:
WOW!!! Sexy AF! I don’t even know what to say besides… ummm… YES! We all can sign off on that right? This phrase just says you’re partner is DEDICATED to your pleasure and what’s sexier than that?!
Love Language: Physical Touch
5. I’ve got the night planned for us:
I love a good date night with my boo, but when he plans it for us, it makes me feel so loved! I appreciate a partner who, after so many years of being together, puts in the effort to keep DATING their significant other. HOT AF!
Love Language: Quality Time
If you found your love language in this, SHARE this with your partner and show them all the great things they do. It’s also a good way to open up the discussion and find out how you both can be filling your love cup in the ways you both feel it most.