How to Argue Effectively in Your Relationship - The Ladies Coach

How to Argue Effectively in Your Relationship

by Christal Fuentes

Do you know how to argue effectively? When you argue with your spouse, do you feel you both understand each other better after? Or do your arguments tend to distance you two further? What I’ve come to realize is, the way we argue says a lot about our communication styles and for most of us, the way we communicate is completely ineffective. Which, unfortunately, says a lot about the respect we have for not only our spouse but for ourselves.

Arguments in relationships are completely normal. I’ve said this in a past video and I’ll say it again, even beautiful relationships have arguments. Arguing is not a problem if you argue the right way. Why is it important to argue the right way? Because so often, arguments can disrupt the trust in a relationship and trust is one the key factors to sustaining relationships.

In a past video I mentioned before called, 3 Ways to Have Better Fights, I get personal in my relationship and share how my spouse and I argue… I’m definitely not perfect but I do keep my own tips in mind while Andrew and I are in a heated discussion. Why? Because our love is too precious to damage it by the need to be right!

The reason I am doing another video about this is that I am seeing a pattern of toxic arguments occurring with my dear ladies, and these arguments are disrupting even the most precious of relationships. But, I got your back girl!

Here is a video that comes with love about how to argue effectively in your relationship.

Like always, we want to hear from you, how do you argue? Do you fight fair, or does your justice meter (the need to be right) get in the way?

Christal Fuentes

about the author

Christal Fuentes

Christal is the Founder of The Ladies Coach. She lives and breathes her belief which is that you can’t find fulfillment in life without mastering the art of relationships.


Absolutely love you Chriistal Fuentes!

Katie???? SAYS:

Great advice! I watched this video a few months ago when i started following the ladies coach. Since following you on snapchat and reading every new post on the ladies coach I have learned so much!I have definetly learned to be more accountable in my relationships and to try and understand how to be a better recipient of love???????????????????? your amazing!! I love everything the ladies coach is about!

Lauren SAYS:

Those tips are very helpful, thank you!

    Christal Fuentes SAYS:

    Thank you Lauren! So glad they could help! XO

Pablo Gutierrez SAYS:

Ive been watching your videos and they are really great. We are going trough a lot of troubles right now and we could seriously use a relationship coach right now. Do you think we can contact you?

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