There’s something happening in our relationships that may or may not be our fault. Actually, it could be our parent’s fault…
What? Yup! Have you ever looked at the patterns you constantly get yourself in? Maybe you’ve been in and out of the wrong relationship too many times? Fallen for the same types of men?
Maybe you are the one that causes destruction in your intimate relationships but you just don’t know how to end the cycle.
Well, it all comes down to your blueprint for love. A blueprint that has been modeled and replicated from our past and closest relationships, which happen to be… who? Our family.
What’s a blueprint? Well, do you know what happens before a new building is built? Truthfully, I don’t even know all of the details but the most important to know is the blueprint design. Before the construction of a new building, there is a blueprint with a layout and detailed design of the building. This blueprint shows the in’s and out’s of the building so that the construction will be successful. Without a blueprint, the construction of a building will be a mess!
The problem we get ourselves into is that we get into relationships hoping it turns out good without having a solid “blueprint” on what a successful relationship looks like. It’s the same professionally. It’s not enough to “wing it” and hope you create the business of your dreams, you have to actually look at your “blueprint” for success, and that’s exactly what we are going to do today.
We are especially going to look at our blueprint for love by becoming aware of our MEANINGS.
In this video I ask you to fill in the blanks to these statements:
Love is …..
And, I also ask that you also give yourself the time to answer these questions:
What did you understand about love as a young kid?
What patterns have you created in your adult life that may have copied those past behaviors?
These questions are important to understanding, not they will change your blueprint for love, but because they will make you become aware of what the pattern is.
COMMENT YOUR INSIGHTS BELOW and I will be around to assist you!