Wanna know the biggest problem I see stopping my ladies from living an authentic life? We don’t know how to be nice, but not TOO nice.
Did you ever think being too nice was gonna be a problem? I certainly didn’t, but the more I understood what living an authentic life meant, the more I began to realize that caring too much about how others perceive of us is what’s stopping us from living with confidence.
Not too long ago we lost two absolute legends. First, David Bowie, then Prince. It’s definitely been a sad year, not just for the music industry, but for everyone for so many reasons. The #1 thing I want to focus on is how these two legends were able to cultivate a life of authenticity. They knew how to be nice, and do it with zero fucks given!
In this video, I specifically talk about Prince because I read an article that gave me all the “ah-ha’s” in the world. I couldn’t wait 5 seconds before I shared it with my ladies on Snapchat.
Let’s get into the video how to be nice, but not too nice
The response I got was incredible. There are so many ladies walking around with a very toxic disease. Want to know what that disease is? Well… we discuss this in the video. But one thing I want you to remember is that being too nice is attached to expectations.
Being too nice is not authentic and is actually attached to expectations of how you’d like people to reciprocate.
That’s not really nice at all right?