I’ve had countless ladies ask me this question over and over again, “How do you know if the man you are seeing is the wrong guy to date?” That’s exactly what we discuss in today’s video.
Oooh, girl! I came out with a list so damn fast it made my fingers hurt typing about it.
Here are 10 signs he’s the wrong guy to date:
1. He becomes too controlling
If you find yourself in a situation where he is trying to dictate what you wear, who you talk to or invade your privacy such as your phone or emails, those are definite red flags that you could be dating the wrong guy.
2. You don’t feel good about yourself when you are around him
What is your energy like when you are around him, do you light up when you are around him or do you find your light being dimmed by that person. You know how you feel, so be truthful. And if you feel that most of the time your light is being dimmed, you could be dating the wrong guy.
3. He’s not attentive
When you are with him, is he present with you. Now, I understand we can’t give a person 100% attention ALL the time, but if a majority of the time if he is distracted with other things when you are together, this could be a sure sign that you are dating the wrong guy.
4. Not kind to service staff
This one is a huge one for me, I feel you can tell a lot about a person that they don’t usually show you otherwise while dating. But if a guy disrespects service staff in any way, this could be a sign he could do the same to you eventually and if you see this, it is possibly a sign you are dating the wrong guy.
5. He lacks ambition or passion
Here at TLC, we focus a lot on passion. And since we do, I think its equally important the guy we date shares the same enthusiasm for life. He doesn’t always need to know where he’s going but having the enthusiasm to act upon things he loves is definitely important.
6. He’s a “Show-er”
If the guy you are dating constantly shows off what he has, what he does, and who he knows, he probably needs more attention than you can give him alone. And if you see this ladies, it could be an absolutely sure sign you are dating the wrong guy.
7. He never wants to meet your friends OR never takes you around his friends
If you have been dating a guy for a while and every time he is supposed to meet your friends, he bails? OR he never introduces you to his friends, it could be a sure sign he’s not that into you…
8. He never finds time for you
If the guy you’re “dating” can NEVER make time for you… Don’t waste YOUR time.
9. His Instagram/facebook is private and you haven’t been accepted
10. He doesn’t keep his word
I believe it so unbelievably important that a guy keeps his word. Not to say it’s not equally important for a woman to do it as well, but as a man, if they say they are going to do something and they DO it, it shows unbelievable commitment and power.
I know there are more than just these 10 signs he’s the wrong guy for you, so I am asking for your insights and comments so we can help our fellow ladies to stop dating the wrong guys!