How to Increase Your Chances of Meeting the Right Guy

How to Increase Your Chances of Meeting the Right Guy

by Fauna Solomon

If you ask most single women why they aren’t in a relationship they’ll likely say, it’s because they have a hard time meeting the right guy. Nothing is more frustrating in dating than being ready for a relationship, but having no clue where to meet the right person.

I believe that we are constantly crossing paths with the right people but we miss opportunities to connect with them. It’s not a matter of where to meet these wonderful men but how.

You can increase your chances of meeting the right guy by doing the following:


How can you find a man you don’t actually believe exists? There is a lid for every pot, meaning a right guy for everyone. You can’t miss him; you can only block his energy from connecting with yours. To put plainly, if you don’t expect to meet him, you won’t.

You have to believe that the right man for you is on his way into your life. Don’t let your negativity, doubt or past experiences cloud this belief. You have to hold firm to the idea that the right man is out there and know with certainty that he is making his way into your life.


I believe the reason we miss so many opportunities to meet potential dates is that we just aren’t prepared. Some days we feel like being invisible, we don’t want any attention from men. Other days we’re in a rush and we can’t be slowed down with interactions and engagements with strangers. How is the Universe to know what you really want?

If you decide that you want to meet the right guy, set the stage by preparing to meet him. Be prepared by getting dressed for the occasion. Start accepting invitations you would normally decline. Position yourself in the best places to meet men. Base your decisions on the fact that it will happen instead of when.


Desperation is one of the unsexiest qualities anyone can have. Instead of feeling anxious about who might be the right man for you, relax and enjoy dating. What you learn about yourself by being great company will prepare you for the right relationship.

Don’t stress yourself out trying to make every man you meet into a boyfriend. Don’t read into every situation as a personal failure if dating doesn’t lead to a relationship.

If you believe the right person for you is on their way then just relax and enjoy meeting new people. My theory on meeting new people is: they might not be the one but they might know the one. Don’t be afraid to form new friendships with men that could lead to meeting the man of your dreams.


Once you adopt the right attitude, the best strategy for meeting more men is location, location, location! If you aren’t placing yourself in the right environment to meet quality men then you might never get close to the guy meant for you.

Don’t just wish the wish of being in a relationship actually get out there and do something about it. First, take time out of your week to look for love.

Choose locations that are generally littered with men, such as the men’s section of a department store. If you happen to pass a cute guy on the street or in a coffee shop, then say something. Don’t be afraid to create opportunities for yourself as well as be aware of chances all around you to make connections.

Meeting the right guy is a combination of attitude and action. Once you accept that your perfect match is out there, don’t be afraid to go out and find him.

Fauna Solomon

about the author

Fauna Solomon

Miss Solomon is a dating expert and founder of She provides honest advice and simple instruction for men and women committed to building stronger relationships.
Find me on: Twitter, Facebook, and Youtube: /thedatingtruth

Leesha SAYS:

Thank you for sharing your wisdom on this subject. I read carefully and I do not disagree with a single thing. Although every woman’s personality differs from the other, I do think that enjoying your time being out, with or without any intention of meeting someone, is the best way to be. Good energy should surely sync with others quickly (hopefully a special someone).
Best of Luck Ladies!
xoxo- Leesha

    Christal Fuentes SAYS:

    Thank you Leesha, I absolutely agree 🙂 Thank you for reading! XO

Tandar SAYS:

Beautifully written and said. Great tips! Thanks coach. <3

Alice SAYS:

But what if you’re shy and comparatively inexperienced?

    Christal Fuentes SAYS:

    You are so right Alicia! I believe dating is different for many people, and we would be more than happy to go more in depth with this <3 Thank you for watching!

Kimberly SAYS:

Great advice, I’ve been trying to find the perfect guy for years, and now that I’m finally all graduated and am working full-time, I’m kind of ready to start finding someone special. Siiigh, I see all of my classmates/fellow friends find someone, or is engaged and getting married and then there is me. 24 and still single haha. I’m patiently waiting, but after trying a plethora of dating sites, I have had no luck.

Ebrima Barry SAYS:

Important lessons and i love the way it is delivered

Ginna SAYS:

This is the best advice!! Thanks xox


Unfortunately now that so many women have their very high unrealistic expectations and standards which makes it rather very difficult for many of us single guys still looking.

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