Christal and Chrissy discuss dating Do’s and Don’ts; how to let someone show up in the ways you want them to; and girl talk (cough cough… BLOW JOBS)
Let’s get into the Do’s & Don’ts of Dating
Talk about your ex or past relationships.
Answer Questions Honestly – Without Dwelling too much on the past.
Talk about yourself, but not in excess.
“Don’t try so hard to be interesting. Instead be interested in getting to know your date.”
Treat wait staff with disrespect or be rude.
Drink too much – Although you may be nervous, you don’t want to go overboard.
Have “A” cocktail to loosen up if you like Go by a “one-two” drink maximum. This ensures any and all possibility of you making a hot-mess of yourself, and or the possibility of you getting sick in front of your date.
Dominate the date.
Let the date flow.
DON’T: Talk About Marriage:
You don’t need to know right off the bat if he will make a good husband or father. Right now, you just need to get to know the basics of this person.
Talk about future goals and aspirations.
TOP TIP: DO NOT BE ON YOUR PHONE
Be present. Dates can be uncomfortable at first, or for some, uncomfortable the whole time, but keep in mind, this feeling is temporary. You don’t need to put pressure on yourself and the person you are having a date with. Enter this date with the true intention of getting to know this person. If it works, it works. If it doesn’t….next!
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Russell Marvin SAYS:
I love your discussion on dating and the do’s and don’t’s. If I was to tell you about all my dates that gone so terribly wrong, I would take up your whole podcast time. I think I’m just your average man but unfortunately I have been through 2 marriages. Most they just stopped talking to me about everything. There other factors in my decisions to divorce. But this time I dug through the internet for everything about females. I have learned what I did wrong and I’m still learning. I’m 66 and boy things have changed. I’m thinking about doing a podcast for all the people that are going through a lot of life’s issues. But I’m listening to a lot of people talking about sex and marriage and relationships, I’m gathering it all up and running through my life experiences and what I know to be true. Well we see how things work out. Have a great day and take care of yourself