Connecting to Self & Staying Grounded - Your October 2018 Horoscope
 

Connecting to Self & Staying Grounded – Your October 2018 Horoscope

by Lauren Claire Wolfgram

Theme of the Month

This month is all about connection to self and staying grounded.


October Horoscope Overview

Venus is in retrograde during this month which means any choices around love, beauty, or finances need to be analyzed and well thought out before you make them. It’s a great time to focus on reconnecting with your inner self and getting back on track with your self-care habits. Work on some of those self-esteem weak points. Any development you do for the self this month is going to have a deeper and more lasting effect. For your relationships, make sure you ask whether you and your partner are both getting what you need out of the relationship and how you can improve things.


The Best Crystal for October

The crystal of the month for October 2018 is Tiger’s Eye!

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Aries this month, find a good balance of time for loved ones, focus on your work, and a little extra time to get out and have some adventures. It also may be time to lay it all out on the table withone of your loved ones. All the things you’ve been holding onto in that relationship it’s time you talk about it.

Aries, in the area of love and relationships, with the chill in the air making itself known, it’s time to cuddle up with your love and enjoy their warmth. If you’re single, maybe it’s time to show alittle extra warmth to that crush of yours. If you find yourself too busy with work to uphold a commitment with your love, make sure you cancel or reschedule ahead of time. Just don’t standthem up, no one likes that.

Aries, in work and career, you may find you have a new brilliant business idea you want to pursue. Now is the time to go for it. You can accomplish a lot in your career at the moment and your powers of persuasion may really come in handy.

Aries, overall this month, enjoy time with loved ones, pursue new business ideas and make some time to try something new!

The Best Crystal for Aries This Month

The crystal of the month for you is Brown Zebra Jasper!

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Taurus, this month, it’s good to focus on keeping calm if your day seems a little bit off. If you find lots of little things not going quite the way you want them, just pause, take a breath, and center yourself. Don’t let little things put you in a bad mood.

Taurus, in the area of love and relationships, there are sometimes bumps in the road. Love wouldn’t be love if everything was perfect twenty four seven, that only happens in Hollywood.The important thing is to take those moments of imperfection and use them as an opportunity to grow your relationship. Also make sure to take some time for yourself to focus on you as an individual rather than you as a significant other.

Taurus, in work this month, don’t play energetic tug-of-war with anyone in your work life. Power struggles are going to take away from you getting what you want to accomplish. Find your own power by choosing not to play into that energetic game.

Taurus, overall this month keep calm in the eye of the storm, know that obstacles happen and when they do you get to learn better each time how to tackle them. Lastly, pick your battles!

The Best Crystal for Taurus This Month

The crystal of the month for you is Black Onyx!

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Gemini, this month, debates and banter are sure to invigorate you, but full-blown arguments will do the opposite. Focus on having some interesting debates and conversations, but avoid those all out passionate arguments, now is not the time.

Gemini, this month, in the area of love and relationships, you may find a desire to focus on engaging your mind. Stimulate your mind with interesting conversation or diving into getting to know and understand your partner better this month. Check in with yourself too and pay attention to where your energy and emotions are.

Gemini, in work and career, how well you know your job and all the little ins and outs of it are really going to come in handy this month. Knowing the whole system of operations will definitely make things easier. You also may be feeling a lot of inventive ideas surrounding your work this month.

Gemini, overall this month, focus on stimulating your mind in every area of your life, while also remembering to check in with your emotions and energy level.

The Best Crystal For Gemini This Month

The crystal of the month for you is Selenite!

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Cancer, this month, it’s time to embrace humility. This doesn’t mean letting people walk over you, it simply means recognizing that no one is all knowing and each of us always has more to learn on our journey. Embrace that and find value in what you still have to learn and the people who have lessons to teach you.

Cancer, in love and relationships, if you like someone, it’s time to let them know. That doesn’t mean you have to outright confess your attraction to them or make some grand gesture of your affection. Just start letting them know by flirting or smiling at them more. Be however bold or subtle that you want, just start making your feelings known.

Cancer, this month at work, it’s okay to brag sometimes, but in this instance, don’t try to hide it behind modesty. Just be direct with the person concerned with what you’ve accomplished and how that is valid to the current situation.

Cancer, overall this month, let the universe gently teach you humility, recognize what you have to learn, get your flirt on and be straight forward with what you’ve achieved and how that can be of use at work.

The Best Crystal for Cancer This Month

The crystal of the month for you is Smokey Quartz!

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Leo, this month, you may have some surprise opportunities to reconnect with friends and family, so enjoy that to the fullest. If you have something you’re researching, make sure to dig deep and put in some extra time, a surface search job is not going to be very helpful.

Leo, this month in love, there are some major romantic vibes heading your way. If you feel the urge to look into this person and get to know them more before getting involved then great! But, if your gut is telling you to go for it then do that too. Find a balance between what your heart and mind are telling you, but don’t let fear or past relationship history hold you back.

Leo, this month at work, everything is looking great! Whether it’s landing that big promotion or being asked out by a co-worker you think is cute, there are plenty of pleasant surprises in your work world this month.

Leo, overall this month, enjoy all the wonderful surprises that come into your life, find balance between the mind and the heart and listen to that gut instinct.

The Best Crystal for Leo This Month

The crystal of the month for you is Crazy Lace Agate!

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Virgo, this month, be flexible, stay cool, and be open to plans changing. It’s easy to get tense and frustrated when things shift up or if you’re feeling stressed, but instead of getting rigid, find ways to stay loose and go with the flow. If you like yoga or meditation do that. If music is more your thing, have a jam session: whatever is going to keep you loose!

Virgo, in love this month bring all those feelings of calm collectedness into your relationship. If you find yourself struggling with keeping your cool it’s okay, we all have our moments. A true partner will understand that and if they don’t, they may not be deserving of you. Check in with your friends, they may have some excellent romantic insights for you.

Virgo, at work, if you run into hitches at work stay calm and find a new solution. You may come up with something that makes what seemed like an issue into something that was better than originally planned. Finding creative workarounds to issues is also a great way to show of your ingenuity.

Virgo, overall this month, stay calm and flexible, know that your partner loves you at your best and your off days (and if not, notice that too!), check in with friends, and be a creative problem solver.

The Best Crystal for Virgo This Month

The crystal of the month for you is Pyrite!

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Libra, this month, tap into your talent for making things beautiful, whether its adding some fall decorations to your home or having a crafting session with friends, your creativity is going to add something extra to your life. If you find yourself trapped in tedious activities, invite someone you enjoy to hang out while you get them done. Good conversation can make even boring tasks fun.

Libra, in the realm of love and relationships, you may have your love interest thinking you are super cool and collected all the time but now may be the time to surprise them with your creative side! Maybe make them a thoughtful homemade gift or write them something nice, a message or card to let them know what they mean to you. They will definitely be pleasantly surprised.

Libra, at work, it may seem counter productive to hang out with your friends in order to get farther with your work but this month your friends are going to have some great insights and advice in regards to your career so if you’re feeling stuck, call them up.

Libra, overall this month, get creative, show how much you care in new ways, and listen to your friends insights.

The Best Crystal for Libra This Month

The crystal of the month for you is Blue Lace Agate!

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Scorpio, this month, you may be feeling frustrated by others, feeling like you can get things done better and more efficiently and you may be right, but you also can’t change the situation at the moment. Bide your time and if you get the chance to put your own touch on things or make suggestions then do that.

Scorpio, in the area of love and relationships, don’t get so caught up in work this month that you forget to make time for romance. If you have a loved one you don’t want them feeling neglected and if you’re single you don’t want to miss the opportunity to potentially meet someone new!

Scorpio, in work and career this month, your boss may be extra irritating but don’t do anything rash like quitting or telling them off. Keep calm! You will find ways to accomplish what you want and be happy you made the choices you did.

Scorpio, overall this month, find ways to release your frustration, patience is key, remember your loved ones and make time for romance.

The Best Crystal for Scorpio This Month

The crystal of the month for you is Rose Quartz!

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Sagittarius, this month the universe is smiling your way and so is that cutie across the room and possibly even Fortune herself. Smile right along. If you feel cranky, make sure you are getting enough sleep, if you aren’t, take some naps. Take good care of your body and listen to what it needs.

Sagittarius, in love and relationships, if you feel a ton of energy building in your favor romantically this month, well you’d be right. Now is the perfect time to ask out that special someone for a fun spontaneous date. Make sure you also respect your boundaries this month. If someone is making you uncomfortable, you have every right to make them aware of that.

Sagittarius, in work and career, you may find some interesting new experiences and opportunities to try new things presenting themselves through your job. How exciting to be able to have a new adventure and be productive all at once! Enjoy the experience!

Sagittarius, this month, keep smiling and listening to what your body needs, ask out that special person, and enjoy new work adventures!

The Best Crystal for Sagittarius This Month

The crystal of the month for you is Green Aventurine!

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Capricorn, this month, its perfectly okay to be a little on your guard, just don’t be full onguarded, yes there is a difference. A hint of skepticism is fine, just don’t completely close off the castle and make people swim the moat to get to you. Although, opportunities that sound too good to be true probably are, so it is good to be a little skeptical sometimes.

Capricorn, in love and relationships, being as open as possible is important, but if certain things aren’t adding up, definitely take a pause to do a little investigating before you lower that drawbridge all the way.

Capricorn, in work and career, you may be navigating some tricky situations. It is up to you whether you rock the boat or not, but either way, you will eventually come upon calmer seas.

Capricorn, overall this month, it is okay to be on guard, put on your investigator hat, get to the bottom of things that don’t add up and decide how you want to brave any storms at work.

The Best Crystal for Capricorn This Month

The crystal of the month for you is Labradorite!

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Aquarius, this month, if you find yourself fighting battles over something you don’t even care about, it’s probably about time to re-evaluate why you’re fighting in the first place. Don’t waste your energy.

Aquarius, in love and relationships, if you are finding constant push and pull in your relationship then something needs to change. A little friction is fine but if you are in constant disagreement, then you both need to have a new discussion about what you want and need.

Aquarius, in work and career, don’t get caught up in office drama or co-worker’s personal issues. You’re there to work, not to be the one they vent their problems to. You can be a friend, but if you feel over invested in co-worker’s problems, it’s time to extricate yourself from them.

Aquarius, overall this month, stop fighting and also take a look at why you were bothering to fight in the first place. Figure out what you want and need in a relationship and don’t take on other people’s problems.

The Best Crystal for Aquarius This Month

The crystal of the month for you is Black Tourmaline!

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Pisces, this month get proactive about your happiness and health. If you aren’t feeling happy and healthy, find out why and get to work on making changes. Sure, you could avoid it, but thenyou’re stuck feeling crappy and who wants that?

Pisces, in the area of love and relationships, you may be feeling like you want to figure out every single relationship issue all at once this month. That’s not priority though: you are. If you aren’t in a great place internally or with your health then shift your focus! You can only build healthy relationships when you start building a healthy relationship with yourself.

Pisces, don’t neglect your exercise program to put in more time at work. You aren’t going to do your best work if you aren’t feeling good. Your body is the conduit of the mind. They work as a team, so make your body feel good so your brain will too.

Pisces, overall this month, along with your happiness, your body and health are of utmost importance! Relationship stuff takes a back seat to your relationship with yourself.

The Best Crystal for Pisces This Month

The crystal of the month for you is Pink Kunzite!

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Lauren Claire Wolfgram

about the author

Lauren Claire Wolfgram

Lauren Claire Wolfgram is a horoscope diva, artist and teacher at the Zen Rose Garden Global Personal Development Center. She loves to explore both the traditional Western Zodiac and the Chinese Zodiac. She also loves to sing, loves Anime, K-Pop and performs as a member of her K-Pop dance group in Las Vegas. She holds a B.A. in Art and resides in Las Vegas, Nevada.

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